Monday, September 15, 2014

My Walking Girls, the Ballet and Handsome Fella' at the Sundial!

What an awesome weekend!

It all began Friday morning with my walking girls, Cinda and Joyce!  Stop whatever you are doing right now and clap your hands...a lot!!!!!  That's applause for these two remarkable women who for the THIRD time walked 60 miles in three days, this time in Philadelphia!   Yes, there was a bit of rain but hey, the tents were indoors this year!!!!  No muddy footprints on the mattresses!  I am so proud of them and their knees and feet.  Think about it.  When was the last time you walked one mile?  They walked 60!  WOW!  They are such an inspiration to me, AND they do it for all of us.  That's just over-the-top awesome!  I love them so much!

Friday evening I made two new friends (I think).  I had a lovely dinner with Handsome Fella' and his best friend and his wife.  I must admit I was a bit nervous.  When you've been married for a ton of years and your spouse dies, all of a sudden you are one instead of two.  All of your friends are used to you and your spouse and the "couple" you are.  It's quite a "moment" when you appear with someone else. We arrived a bit late (not my fault) and his friends were already there.  So, introductions were made and the evening began.  How am I supposed to relax, talk, EAT, and be comfortable while I'm wondering what they think about this...and me?  They were so warm and friendly to me.  The conversation included children, grandchildren, the "old times" stories, and the history between Handsome Fella' and me.  (Remember, 40+ years ago, Handsome Fella' and I dated prior to me marrying HC Baker and Handsome Fella' marrying Miss Patti.)  Dinner was delicious, Handsome Fella' was right beside me and kept me included and the evening ended with hugs!  Sigh of relief and smiling!  (And Cinda and Joyce walked!)

Saturday was filled with the usual Saturday things.  However, I was looking forward to the evening with Handsome Fella and attending the Louisville Ballet's production of Giselle, my most favorite ballet.  Many, many years ago I performed with the Louisville Ballet and danced twice in Giselle.  Absolutely love it!  And Handsome Fella' had never been to the ballet!  (He's a sports guy, especially baseball as he nearly made a career in that profession.  More about that later.)  So, he picks me up and we head downtown.  Dinner on Main Street and then to the performance.  I did offer a very brief synopsis of the story of Giselle so he would hopefully be ready to see and feel the romance and heartbreak of "the dance".  So often the choreography of many of the original classic ballets is altered, but the new artistic director of the Louisville Ballet retained much of the original work.  My feet wanted to move with the music so many times, I was afraid I would jump up from my seat and dance in the aisle.  (Kept myself in check!)  It was beautiful.  Giselle and Albrecht (the prince) were fabulous!  She was graceful on pointe with beautiful extension.  He was a master of leaps - great height and precise beats.  And Handsome Fella' now has a new respect for the artistic ability of dancers.  He was impressed and enjoyed the performance, maybe would even go again!!!  We both agreed on one thing though.  Having not attended a Louisville Ballet performance in over five years, I was surprised the music was recorded, as was he.  Does the Louisville Orchestra no longer provide the music for the ballet?  What about the opera?  What happened?  My goodness, the orchestra would have so enhanced the performance!  But what an evening!  Perfect from beginning to end!  I was happy to see a few wonderful friends at the ballet too.  (And Cinda and Joyce walked!)

Sunday morning, Handsome Fella' invited me to breakfast.  The day was so beautiful, after breakfast he decided we would take a road trip!  We began to drive east on US 60, something I hadn't done in quite some time.  Interstate highways are wonderful when you're traveling long distances, but there's nothing like the "old" road to relax and surprise you!  And the day was gorgeous!  Perfect temperatures and wonderful sunshine were everywhere we went.  Our first real "slow down" was in Frankfort.  I love Frankfort.  We drove down (or up maybe?) Capitol Avenue, circled the capitol and saw the floral clock.  Good grief, I remember when it was brand new!  We drove past the Governor's mansion, and I remembered having dinner there twice in my life.  Handsome Fella' has had dinner there lots of times over the years.  Memories!!!!  We saw the sign for the Kentucky Viet Nam Veterans Memorial and he asked if I'd ever seen it.  I said yes, several times and he said he'd never seen it.  We agreed to go, and I took him right to it.  (If you've never seen it, shame on you.  It's very special in it's location and design.)
Here's a bit of history about Handsome Fella'.  He was an Airborne Ranger in the mid to late 60's and served in Viet Nam.  He is the recipient of two Purple Hearts.  With the design of the Memorial, he could stand on it just where his name would have been inscribed had he lost his life.  Fortunately, he did survive his injuries, but those injuries did cancel his baseball contract as a short stop with the St. Louis Cardinals.  Despite his incredible disappointment at not being able to play professional baseball, he has achieved business successes worthy of the true American hero he is!  I am so proud of him and am blessed to call him my friend.  

From the capitol, we traveled the back roads and found Woodford Reserve Distillery.  I had been there several times but he had not.  (All those business successes kept him pretty busy.  He is just beginning to learn to relax a bit.)  We decided to take the tour and what fun we had.  Again, the beautiful day added to the enjoyment!  It seemed every time our guide asked if there were any questions, I was the only one who had something to ask!!!  (Go figure!)  Well, most of you know how that tour ends and we enjoyed that too!  As the sun began to set, we headed back to Louisville.  What a glorious day!  (And Cinda and Joyce walked!)

Another beautiful day today (Monday), and I got to have lunch with my dear Harrodsburg friend who was in town for a morning seminar.  We shared about our families and laughed!  What's better than that?  (And Cinda and Joyce flew home!)

Life is short Friends!  Praise the Lord, do your best, laugh a lot and enjoy every moment!  xxoo



                        




Tuesday, September 9, 2014

WHEW!!!!!

I love wonderful, exciting, happy memories, and the last two weeks have provided so many, I just don't know where to begin!

I'd like to begin with Pastor Barr's sermon, Sunday, August 24th.  He has been sharing a few of the Parables Jesus told and this Sunday's was called "A Rude Awakening".  It's the Parable of the steward who stole money from his master (Luke 16:1-8), and it's always been a bit vague to me as I never knew where it "fit" me.  Now I have a new understanding of it and know exactly how it applies to me.  Dr. Barr began with the question, "Have you ever had a game-changer?"  WOW, have I, and that game-changer left me spinning in an unknown world.  Now I have a few possible avenues to pursue.

     I am the STEWARD of my own life.  There will be an accounting to the Lord and did I use
     all the gifts the Lord gave me?  Have I lost sight of who I am and who I am becoming?  What
     investment can I make today to affect my future and others' futures?  The hymn "I need Thee every  
     hour" was sung followed by this statement - Yes, we need Thee every hour but we don't always
     act like it!  LIVE WISELY!!!!!

The following week was incredible!  On Tuesday, my dear friend Christy moved into her new home.  It's beautiful and she is settling in!  Wednesday began the final wedding preparations for Libby and Tim's special day.  Most of you have seen a few of the photos and they are perfect!  It was a beautiful day of memories and fun, exciting times with family and friends.

With our arms around each other, Libby and I walked down the aisle which was between bales of hay covered in old quilts from the handwork of my grandmother, Mamaw, HC Baker's grandmother, Gandy, great Aunt Mary, and a few newer, purchased ones!  Surrounded by memories right there!!!  There was lawn Twister, giant Genga (made by Tim) and not sure of that spelling, 3 sets of corn hole, the HUGE pile of old trees, stumps, old fence posts, etc., ready for a wonderful bonfire, plenty to eat and drink and lots of laughter and a few tears!  What a day!  Missed having Emily, Brett, Garrett and Gracie there.  *Handsome Fella' missed the day too as he was in Chattanooga, Tennessee, with his family enjoying his grandchildren for a final summer outing.  So it was a family holiday weekend for everyone!  Hearts are full!

Survived all that and spent the next week recuperating!  I did visit with dear friends Hub and Reenie.  Some of you might remember them from the years of the live Nativity - they supplied the lambs and Jamison, the donkey!  Hadn't seen them in some time and it was good to catch up!

Made it to church on Sunday for the first in a sermon series titled Just Walk Across the Room, a book by Bill Hybels.  Bought the book, starting to read it and already cried once!  Excited to learn how I can just walk across the room!  Wouldn't that be wonderful for ALL of us?

Spent Sunday afternoon with Handsome Fella' and dear friends, Rick and Barbara (you've been praying for them because they were BOTH diagnosed with cancer last fall) on their weekend farm in Washington County.  Barbara is doing well, Rick is still in treatment.  A large part of his problem is his heart cannot stay in the right rhythm and the meds he is taking keep him sick to his stomach most of the time.  Continued prayers please.  We did take a ride around the farm in his new "mule".  I asked my friend Christy if she knew what a mule was and she said yes.  Then I told her I rode in it around the farm and she gasped!!!!!  She thought I meant a real mule!!!!  After we both stopped laughing, I explained to her it was like a golf cart!!  She felt better!  (I was still totally out of my element but I did it!  Handsome Fella' took a photo if you need proof!)

There's so much else I could tell you but am running out of time.  I have 3 huge projects going on as I write and none of them are going very well!  For some reason, my power drill/screwdriver won't stay charged and I can't find the correct "bits" (???).  I am trying to hang a picture and cannot get the hooks to catch on the back of the frame!!!!!!!  Aggravating to say the least!  I'm trying to hang drapery rods and I think I'm trying to drill into metal and that's a problem!!!!  AND...I'm sewing and broke the machine needle and can't find another one in my sewing box!!!!!  Not my morning!

But let me close with a few prayer requests.  Tomorrow, dear friend Madeline will have her first radiation treatment.  Even though she is the best nurse many of us have ever had, she is now the patient!  Not an easy task for her.  PRAY!  Thursday, dear friends, Cinda and Joyce fly to Philadelphia for their THIRD 3-day 60 mile Susan G. Komen breast cancer walk.  I am so proud of these two women for their commitment and hard work!  PRAY!  Tomorrow a wonderful young woman and her patient and kind husband will be overjoyed at the arrival of their triplets.  She has been in the hospital on bed rest for over a week now waiting and tomorrow is the day!  PRAY!  There are lots of others needing prayers for all kinds of reasons, good and bad.  PRAY!  And always please remember our military and their families.  PRAY!

And to everyone, PRAY we will all find the strength and courage in our hearts to JUST WALK ACROSS THE ROOM!

Love you all, xxoo