Summer is flying by and I have enjoyed helping to chaperone and chauffeur Garrett and Gracie. I mentioned in an earlier blog I had been shooting at the Sportsman Club and had a great time. Well, I joined the club and yesterday Garrett and I went shooting. Garrett has several of HC's guns he is learning to understand and use. I am very nervous as yet but know the more we go, the more relaxed I will become. Although, I don't want to get too relaxed as I must remain focused while we are there. Garrett did a great job shooting and also "sighted" a rifle. (Don't ask me, I just watched!) Garrett is 14 and will be playing on the 9th grade football team this fall. He goes to the high school weight room 4 evenings a week to work out. He also works 20 hours a week at their store, keeps the grass mowed at the store and at home, is a pretty good golfer, and helps his Mom and Dad with other chores around the farm. They have 2 huge gardens, 5 goats, Garrett and Brett (his Dad) have designed a golf green and are waiting for the grass to grow, and are adding a long range shooting area. (Not to mention the two antique cars waiting in the pole barn for restoration!)
The good news is the candy/ice cream store has been very busy this summer and either Emily or Brett and sometimes both of them are always there. They have had several weddings this summer and have a beautiful satin-bowed box they fill with Brett's chocolates for the gift to the wedding guests. Something is always going on and for that they are very grateful. Gracie is 10 and not yet allowed to work in the store. So very often, when the rest of the family is working, she is visiting with me. Emily had to work two mornings this week so I got to take Gracie to Gaylord (about 30 miles south on I-75) to her swim lessons.
This morning when I picked her up, she got in the car wearing a huge smile and very excited and said to me, "Guess what Jo?" I said no clue so she told me her Dad told her he was going to put her "on the schedule" next summer. I asked "schedule for what?" She said "working at the store. I'm going to get to work and earn money!" (Dear Lord, please let her always be excited to work!) Anyway, she cannot wait to be behind the counter and dip ice cream cones, make sundaes, milk shakes, malts, brown cows and everything else on the menu! You all know I'm writing this so that I may remind her in summers to come how excited she was to begin this part of her life. Now you all can remind her too! Anyway, after her swim lesson, she and I went....drumroll please...SHOPPING! One of our favorite stores is in Gaylord and Emily hates going there so it's a real treat when Gracie and I go to T. J. Max! We can spend hours there looking at everything trying to decide if we need it! We also know our shopping isn't always about "need" but rather "want"! We made a mistake and got a cart!!!!! It's the kiss of death for shoppers. We always go to the shoe department because Gracie has finally grown into (sort of) a 5 1/2 size women's shoe. And Jessica Simpson had several pairs there, all with 5 inch heels. She tried on each one! Gracie told me her mother said she could wear heels when she was eleven, and I told her I didn't think that's what her mother had in mind! But anyway we had a wonderful time. We also stopped at Bath and Body Works. Gracie had a coupon for a free gift AND a gift card!!!!! Decisions, decisions! I believe we now own every summer-scented hand sanitizer they sell. And not once did she say her most famous shopping line..."Jo, can I borrow some money from you? I left my purse in the car. I'll pay you back!" Can I hear an "AMEN" from you for every time we've heard that line? We made it back to Indian River around 2:30 so we could go to the Farmer's Market, open Wednesday's from 2-6pm, Saturday's, 9-1pm. No more Michigan strawberries, but now we have Michigan blueberries and raspberries, corn and potatoes. No home-grown tomatoes yet. There is also a woman there who makes the most delicious breads, cookies and jams. Had to visit her! I got Gracie home by 4pm as requested by her mother! She thanked me, hugged and kissed me, gathered her purchases and ran into her home. I don't go in so I can avoid the looks Emily gives me about the things we buy. Today's most special purchases were from T.J. Max and included a pair of maroon velvet flats on sale for $5.99 and too large for Gracie, but she assures me she will grow into them and until then she can wear them as bedroom slippers AND a black sequin tank top (in her size) she said she will wear under another top! Now for those of you who know Emily, maroon velvet flats and black sequin tank tops will cause the old raised eyebrows and the comment "why did Jo buy that for you?" (Kindly refer to the "want" statement above!)
Someone asked me the other day if I was going on vacation this summer. I told them I was on vacation every day! My summer has been great. A few friends and family have already been up. Dear, dear friends, Barbara and Rick Jones will arrive Sunday till Thursday, Friday will bring Libby and kids, and Aug 13 I'll have my sisters and cousin Mike from Nashville, TN. Then a surprise few hours on a Saturday morning with Tim and Pat Nickel as they pass through this area (who passes through this area?????). Cannot wait! Then after a brief lull in the action, I will have my October "Christy's" and Kathy and Buddy Howells from Harrodsburg. There's still time for you! I promise you won't have to go to T.J. Max! xxoo
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
Monday, July 9, 2012
Windows and Wishes
Living in a house that was built in 1854 includes lots of charm and lots of trouble! My focus this week is windows. Nearly every window in the house has been painted shut 200 times and each window that is open is held open with a stick as all the window weights are broken. I decided that I would work on replacing them a few at a time ($$$$). So this morning, I met with Al, a wonderful young man and he measured 3 kitchen windows as our start. These windows are over my kitchen sink and open to the summer back porch (not heated). I have managed to get one of them open so a delightful breeze comes into the kitchen. BUT...I want all of them to open. So begins the window replacement process.
Al was very nice and polite and friendly but I could just feel he was distracted somehow. I finally asked him if he was all right. He said sadly no, that he was worried about someone. I said who? In the course of our conversation, he told me that he has spent 25 years in the navy and now the reserves and his rank was Master something (I didn't quite get that) and he was in charge of many naval reservists who were deployed last Saturday. (The whole time he is telling me this, I'm thinking of my dear friend Dave Stancil.) Anyway, they are a construction group and Al has been to Iraq twice teaching the people to make bricks and build schools, hospitals, etc. He said one of the people to be deployed didn't show up. As a result of his "no-show", Al had to issue a warrant for this person's arrest. Al has tried to call the phone number and received no response. He began to ask around and discovered when this person returned from his previous deployment, he was unable to find work, his wife has been diagnosed with cancer, and they are living in a car. He said if this person had just called him, he would have helped him any way he could, found housing for him, and taken him off of this deployment list. But now, he's going to be arrested. I asked Al if he would tell me this person's first name, I would pray for him and Al too as he will end up being the "bad guy". Al struggled to remember his first name and couldn't as he only knew him as Petty Officer "C". Al was touched and relieved to know that I would pray for both of them. Al said that's what Petty Officer "C" needs right now...prayers. I now ask each of you to add Petty Officer "C" to your prayer list.
The world is full of so many people needing our prayers. It's such a small and easy thing for us to do. And the wonderful thought for me is I know you all pray! Isn't that glorious? I'll see Al again when the windows arrive and are installed so I'll keep you informed about Petty Officer "C".
Oh, and by the way, the high here today will be 79 and NO humidity. Stay cool ! xxoo
Al was very nice and polite and friendly but I could just feel he was distracted somehow. I finally asked him if he was all right. He said sadly no, that he was worried about someone. I said who? In the course of our conversation, he told me that he has spent 25 years in the navy and now the reserves and his rank was Master something (I didn't quite get that) and he was in charge of many naval reservists who were deployed last Saturday. (The whole time he is telling me this, I'm thinking of my dear friend Dave Stancil.) Anyway, they are a construction group and Al has been to Iraq twice teaching the people to make bricks and build schools, hospitals, etc. He said one of the people to be deployed didn't show up. As a result of his "no-show", Al had to issue a warrant for this person's arrest. Al has tried to call the phone number and received no response. He began to ask around and discovered when this person returned from his previous deployment, he was unable to find work, his wife has been diagnosed with cancer, and they are living in a car. He said if this person had just called him, he would have helped him any way he could, found housing for him, and taken him off of this deployment list. But now, he's going to be arrested. I asked Al if he would tell me this person's first name, I would pray for him and Al too as he will end up being the "bad guy". Al struggled to remember his first name and couldn't as he only knew him as Petty Officer "C". Al was touched and relieved to know that I would pray for both of them. Al said that's what Petty Officer "C" needs right now...prayers. I now ask each of you to add Petty Officer "C" to your prayer list.
The world is full of so many people needing our prayers. It's such a small and easy thing for us to do. And the wonderful thought for me is I know you all pray! Isn't that glorious? I'll see Al again when the windows arrive and are installed so I'll keep you informed about Petty Officer "C".
Oh, and by the way, the high here today will be 79 and NO humidity. Stay cool ! xxoo
Saturday, July 7, 2012
Annual TDA Meeting
TDA = Topinabee Development Association
The annual meeting was help today under the pavilion "downtown". In the past months I have lived here, I have been attending the Library Committee meetings, and I helped with the "clean-up" day. The work, of course, is never done but we have received a grant that is matched by additional government funds and construction will begin this fall or next spring adding to the park. The park is really lovely. There are two docks extending out into Mullet Lake. One is for docking your boat and the other is for swimmers. The park has a swing area for the children and public bathrooms. The landscaping is lovely and the entire area is very well maintained. As the meeting drew to a close, no additional questions or comments were received so we were adjourned until next year. Now the fun begins! My invitation to the annual meeting included the instructions to bring a chair, an appetizer to share and your own beverages! I was thrilled to meet more of my neighbors and visit again with others I have already come to know and enjoy. This is the first time I have ever lived in a small (very) community and it's incredibly fun! A well-known local personality entertained after the meeting. (It's funny because he's the Supervisor (kinda like the mayor) of Indian River and spends his days being "political" and on his days off, sings and plays his guitar. Another "small" community plus!)
The 4th of July week has been full of events. I had an especially great time visiting with HC's sister, Jenna and her husband Stan who came up for a visit. It had been some time since I had talked about HC for any length of time and I enjoyed the re-telling of many stories. They loved Topinabee and the surrounding areas, my new home, and of course, the candy store. I have eaten more ice cream in the past 4 days than the entire summer. I so wish you would all come up!
My heart has been heavy the past several days with the death of JoAnn Porter. She was a sweet, sweet spirit and I have been praying for Terri and the family. Then to hear Terri's father has died also. What a burden to bear. It's at these times I so wish I were back in the SMBC community. I totally trust you all are picking up my slack. Please, please do it for me.
One final note tonight...I have just finished reading a book called Same Kind of Different as Me. It is a true story written by Ron Hall and Denver Moore. If you are looking for a challenging as well as inspirational "read", get to the bookstore and buy this book. It hurts your heart, lifts your heart, hurts your heart again, then heals it. There is good in people and in the world. Maybe you've already read it and if so, recommend it to someone else. We all are in need of learning more of God's saving GRACE.
Happy Dreams to all, JB
The annual meeting was help today under the pavilion "downtown". In the past months I have lived here, I have been attending the Library Committee meetings, and I helped with the "clean-up" day. The work, of course, is never done but we have received a grant that is matched by additional government funds and construction will begin this fall or next spring adding to the park. The park is really lovely. There are two docks extending out into Mullet Lake. One is for docking your boat and the other is for swimmers. The park has a swing area for the children and public bathrooms. The landscaping is lovely and the entire area is very well maintained. As the meeting drew to a close, no additional questions or comments were received so we were adjourned until next year. Now the fun begins! My invitation to the annual meeting included the instructions to bring a chair, an appetizer to share and your own beverages! I was thrilled to meet more of my neighbors and visit again with others I have already come to know and enjoy. This is the first time I have ever lived in a small (very) community and it's incredibly fun! A well-known local personality entertained after the meeting. (It's funny because he's the Supervisor (kinda like the mayor) of Indian River and spends his days being "political" and on his days off, sings and plays his guitar. Another "small" community plus!)
The 4th of July week has been full of events. I had an especially great time visiting with HC's sister, Jenna and her husband Stan who came up for a visit. It had been some time since I had talked about HC for any length of time and I enjoyed the re-telling of many stories. They loved Topinabee and the surrounding areas, my new home, and of course, the candy store. I have eaten more ice cream in the past 4 days than the entire summer. I so wish you would all come up!
My heart has been heavy the past several days with the death of JoAnn Porter. She was a sweet, sweet spirit and I have been praying for Terri and the family. Then to hear Terri's father has died also. What a burden to bear. It's at these times I so wish I were back in the SMBC community. I totally trust you all are picking up my slack. Please, please do it for me.
One final note tonight...I have just finished reading a book called Same Kind of Different as Me. It is a true story written by Ron Hall and Denver Moore. If you are looking for a challenging as well as inspirational "read", get to the bookstore and buy this book. It hurts your heart, lifts your heart, hurts your heart again, then heals it. There is good in people and in the world. Maybe you've already read it and if so, recommend it to someone else. We all are in need of learning more of God's saving GRACE.
Happy Dreams to all, JB
Wednesday, July 4, 2012
So Thankful...
for our Soldiers and their families wherever they are! They are the reason we can celebrate today!
for Jo Ann Porter who is now livin' with the Lord! She was an incredible inspiration to me and many others. I will miss her on this earth.
for doctors and nurses taking care of my bull-ridin' cowgirl friend, Sarah.
for my sister-in-law, Jenna (HC's sister) who with her wonderful husband, Stan, will arrive tomorrow to visit me!!!!!!!
for my children and grandchildren who always make me smile!
for my sisters who always have my back!
for Andy Griffith. All of us have lost a friend!
for Ron, Nelson, and William who made it safely to Cousin Camp...ON THEIR BICYCLES...IN MISSISSIPPI...FROM LOUISVILLE!!!!!!!!!!!
and most importantly for Jesus Christ!!!!!!!
And so much more.
Haven't written in a while because I've been busy doing all sorts of things! I've met quite a few new people who are "up" for the summer. It's not been in the 100's but it has been warm. I believe I talked about having an A/C person come and give me a price for installing central air. Not gonna' happen but the window units are working very well. Don't use them every night but when needed, they do the job.
I went shooting. Now there's a surprise, right? I new friend joined the Gun Club ($15 per year!!!) and asked me to go shooting with her. I had not even held a gun in over 20 years so I thought, why not? TR was kind enough to put together a hand gun w/case and ammo and off I went. Boy, it's been a while. The only way I knew I missed the target was when the sand around it exploded!!!! I think I'll join the club and go more often.
Last week Gracie attended the Young Americans camp. She had a blast and learned all sorts of new things. (She now is professional at handling the microphone!!!! Watch out world!) Anyway, they had a terrific performance last Sunday. The Young Americans perform all summer up here at one of the ski resorts. Have seen them several times and they are wonderful.
Garrett is working out and lifting weights at the football facility on the high school campus. He'll play JV football this fall (they actually have games in August).
Good friends are coming for a visit later this month and Libby and kiddos will arrive the 27th! Can't wait to see them. After Libby, my sisters and cousin Mike from Nashville will be here. In October, the "Christys" will visit - their 3rd annual!!!!! followed by good friend "Withers" and hubby! I still have dates on the calendar open. When are you coming?
Quite by accident I found the Farm Chicks Antique Show on YouTube. It's held the first of June each year in Spokane, WA. Has anyone ever been? Oh my gosh, you've got to see it. I'm thinking about going next year, June 1/2, 2013. Hoping my sisters are interested? Any other "sisters" interested? It's a junk festival! A few names of vendors - Forget-Me-Not Dreams, A Thing for Roses, Funky Junk. Check it out and let me know who wants to go!
Enjoyed the 4th of July parade in downtown Indian River this morning. Watched it in front of the candy store and of course, just had to go into the store and have some ice cream. My newest favorite flavor this summer is Peanut Butter Moose Tracks!!!!!!! Triple YUM!
Spent the afternoon getting ready for tomorrow's guests. Made chicken salad and a lemonade pie! Sampled the filling and it's DELISH!!!!!!!! Hope all of you had a wonderful day. xxoo
for Jo Ann Porter who is now livin' with the Lord! She was an incredible inspiration to me and many others. I will miss her on this earth.
for doctors and nurses taking care of my bull-ridin' cowgirl friend, Sarah.
for my sister-in-law, Jenna (HC's sister) who with her wonderful husband, Stan, will arrive tomorrow to visit me!!!!!!!
for my children and grandchildren who always make me smile!
for my sisters who always have my back!
for Andy Griffith. All of us have lost a friend!
for Ron, Nelson, and William who made it safely to Cousin Camp...ON THEIR BICYCLES...IN MISSISSIPPI...FROM LOUISVILLE!!!!!!!!!!!
and most importantly for Jesus Christ!!!!!!!
And so much more.
Haven't written in a while because I've been busy doing all sorts of things! I've met quite a few new people who are "up" for the summer. It's not been in the 100's but it has been warm. I believe I talked about having an A/C person come and give me a price for installing central air. Not gonna' happen but the window units are working very well. Don't use them every night but when needed, they do the job.
I went shooting. Now there's a surprise, right? I new friend joined the Gun Club ($15 per year!!!) and asked me to go shooting with her. I had not even held a gun in over 20 years so I thought, why not? TR was kind enough to put together a hand gun w/case and ammo and off I went. Boy, it's been a while. The only way I knew I missed the target was when the sand around it exploded!!!! I think I'll join the club and go more often.
Last week Gracie attended the Young Americans camp. She had a blast and learned all sorts of new things. (She now is professional at handling the microphone!!!! Watch out world!) Anyway, they had a terrific performance last Sunday. The Young Americans perform all summer up here at one of the ski resorts. Have seen them several times and they are wonderful.
Garrett is working out and lifting weights at the football facility on the high school campus. He'll play JV football this fall (they actually have games in August).
Good friends are coming for a visit later this month and Libby and kiddos will arrive the 27th! Can't wait to see them. After Libby, my sisters and cousin Mike from Nashville will be here. In October, the "Christys" will visit - their 3rd annual!!!!! followed by good friend "Withers" and hubby! I still have dates on the calendar open. When are you coming?
Quite by accident I found the Farm Chicks Antique Show on YouTube. It's held the first of June each year in Spokane, WA. Has anyone ever been? Oh my gosh, you've got to see it. I'm thinking about going next year, June 1/2, 2013. Hoping my sisters are interested? Any other "sisters" interested? It's a junk festival! A few names of vendors - Forget-Me-Not Dreams, A Thing for Roses, Funky Junk. Check it out and let me know who wants to go!
Enjoyed the 4th of July parade in downtown Indian River this morning. Watched it in front of the candy store and of course, just had to go into the store and have some ice cream. My newest favorite flavor this summer is Peanut Butter Moose Tracks!!!!!!! Triple YUM!
Spent the afternoon getting ready for tomorrow's guests. Made chicken salad and a lemonade pie! Sampled the filling and it's DELISH!!!!!!!! Hope all of you had a wonderful day. xxoo
Monday, June 18, 2012
It's Summer (sort of)!
The house painting is finished and the plumber came and fixed the bath tub drain and the leaky pipe in the basement! Now here's the next thing!
Two weekend ago it was HOT with high HUMIDITY and I don't have central air! I am a cold weather person. You can put on additional clothing or turn the heat up to be warm. When it's hot and humid, you can only take off so many clothes (unless you want to live your life in the closet). So I called the HVAC people to come and give me an estimate on installing central air. Keep in mind my home was built in 1854! So here he came. We walked through the house and I told him which registers were heat and which were air returns ( I actually knew that!). He looked in all the closets and behind all the doors. Finally he came to me and said he could cool the first floor without any problem, but if I wanted AC on the second floor, he would have to knock out walls and take over a few closets. It seems I do not have enough duct work and air returns to accommodate AC on the second floor. And it would cost way, way, way more than I was willing to pay. Plus, I just got the walls up and painted and was totally NOT interested in surviving another mess. He was very nice and told me if it were him, he would go and buy several window units. So that's what I did. Went to Sears (an appliance store) and bought 3 units and they work great!!!! The first floor is always very comfortable especially the front porch so I just needed to sleep "cool"! And now I do.
Right now we are experiencing the fish fly season. Oh my gosh!!!!! These fish flys hatch in the water then fly around until they run into something (like you, your house or car) then they latch on! Once the sun hits them they die but they don't fall off your house. So then you take the hose and spray them off! This will last about two weeks. They say one morning I will go outside and they will be gone. Can't wait!
My flowers are growing! All the ones I planted that were already started are lookin' pretty good. The seeds I planted are coming up!!!!!!! Praise the Lord - literally! I have watered and fed them and I act like I know what I'm doing. I finally had 3 unknown bushes bloom this weekend and discovered they are pink (or lavender) spirea. Very pretty. Also have a ton of lilies of the valley blooming and am waiting for what I believe to be tiger lilies. I figure if I can make it through this summer then next summer, I can add to what I know is there. Oh, also have quite a few very pretty and different colored hostas.
The schools are all closed for the summer. Garrett works at the candy store which becomes additionally an ice cream store in the summer. Emily works there too. Grace goes there sometimes but most often she comes here! I taught her to play Yahtzee and she wants to know if there is a world championship (which I am sure she would win)! It is a great practice of math skills and she quickly figured out how to get the most points. Her mother, Emily, told her how every Sunday afternoon when she was little, Nana (HC's mother) would sit at the dining room table and play the game with Emily, Libby and their cousin, Heather who all have families of their own now. Too funny and what memories.
My summer visitors are about to begin. First is HC's sister and her husband, Jenna and Stan, followed by my dear friend Barbara and her husband Rick, then Libby and the kiddos, then my sisters, then there's a bit of a break until September and October which are full of more great friends. Let the games begin!
There's still available days so come on up! The lake is beautiful, the water's getting warmer (TR was swimming yesterday), as I write, seagulls are swooping in and out of the trees in the front yard, the beds have brand new mattresses and the AC window units are installed! What more could you want...and I'll cook!
xxoo
Two weekend ago it was HOT with high HUMIDITY and I don't have central air! I am a cold weather person. You can put on additional clothing or turn the heat up to be warm. When it's hot and humid, you can only take off so many clothes (unless you want to live your life in the closet). So I called the HVAC people to come and give me an estimate on installing central air. Keep in mind my home was built in 1854! So here he came. We walked through the house and I told him which registers were heat and which were air returns ( I actually knew that!). He looked in all the closets and behind all the doors. Finally he came to me and said he could cool the first floor without any problem, but if I wanted AC on the second floor, he would have to knock out walls and take over a few closets. It seems I do not have enough duct work and air returns to accommodate AC on the second floor. And it would cost way, way, way more than I was willing to pay. Plus, I just got the walls up and painted and was totally NOT interested in surviving another mess. He was very nice and told me if it were him, he would go and buy several window units. So that's what I did. Went to Sears (an appliance store) and bought 3 units and they work great!!!! The first floor is always very comfortable especially the front porch so I just needed to sleep "cool"! And now I do.
Right now we are experiencing the fish fly season. Oh my gosh!!!!! These fish flys hatch in the water then fly around until they run into something (like you, your house or car) then they latch on! Once the sun hits them they die but they don't fall off your house. So then you take the hose and spray them off! This will last about two weeks. They say one morning I will go outside and they will be gone. Can't wait!
My flowers are growing! All the ones I planted that were already started are lookin' pretty good. The seeds I planted are coming up!!!!!!! Praise the Lord - literally! I have watered and fed them and I act like I know what I'm doing. I finally had 3 unknown bushes bloom this weekend and discovered they are pink (or lavender) spirea. Very pretty. Also have a ton of lilies of the valley blooming and am waiting for what I believe to be tiger lilies. I figure if I can make it through this summer then next summer, I can add to what I know is there. Oh, also have quite a few very pretty and different colored hostas.
The schools are all closed for the summer. Garrett works at the candy store which becomes additionally an ice cream store in the summer. Emily works there too. Grace goes there sometimes but most often she comes here! I taught her to play Yahtzee and she wants to know if there is a world championship (which I am sure she would win)! It is a great practice of math skills and she quickly figured out how to get the most points. Her mother, Emily, told her how every Sunday afternoon when she was little, Nana (HC's mother) would sit at the dining room table and play the game with Emily, Libby and their cousin, Heather who all have families of their own now. Too funny and what memories.
My summer visitors are about to begin. First is HC's sister and her husband, Jenna and Stan, followed by my dear friend Barbara and her husband Rick, then Libby and the kiddos, then my sisters, then there's a bit of a break until September and October which are full of more great friends. Let the games begin!
There's still available days so come on up! The lake is beautiful, the water's getting warmer (TR was swimming yesterday), as I write, seagulls are swooping in and out of the trees in the front yard, the beds have brand new mattresses and the AC window units are installed! What more could you want...and I'll cook!
xxoo
Sunday, June 10, 2012
Two Years
Two years ago on this morning I was counting the hours until HC Baker and I would leave on a much needed vacation. We would head to our cottage in northern Michigan in the afternoon and enjoy a week of relaxation and grandkids! When that day ended my life would be changed forever.
I was speaking with a new friend the other day and he had been involved in a serious automobile accident also, and we both agreed we could recount every second. And I still can to this day. It replays in my mind in slow motion like a movie. I can even see the colors of this life-changing experience. So often I can't remember the events of yesterday but I can tell you the song that was playing on the car radio.
And now here I am. In the past two years I have retired, sold three houses, moved 600 miles away from my home for plenty of years, made a new home in a house that's over 150 years old, survived its' remodel, made new wonderful friends, miss old wonderful friends, grown closer to my son, grown closer to my Michigan grandchildren, miss my Louisville grandchildren, and the list continues goes on.
Did I make a mistake? Have I made the right decisions? If HC Baker is watching, what does he think? And if he is able to affect my life, why isn't he making it easier? And then I think maybe my life is supposed to be this way. I can only accept that it is.
I continue to be blessed by the thoughts and prayers of so many. I'm looking forward to visits this summer and fall from friends and family. (So far, no one has braved the winter for a visit!)
This day will be filled with memories, but I'm just not sure which ones. HC Baker can still be found on the bookshelf in the den and I've already had a conversation with him this morning. I still feel sad and angry sometimes but I also still know he's so happy to be where he is. And as beautiful as today is, he's probably already caught plenty of fish! (I wonder if there's a limit?)
Two years...hardly seems possible.
I was speaking with a new friend the other day and he had been involved in a serious automobile accident also, and we both agreed we could recount every second. And I still can to this day. It replays in my mind in slow motion like a movie. I can even see the colors of this life-changing experience. So often I can't remember the events of yesterday but I can tell you the song that was playing on the car radio.
And now here I am. In the past two years I have retired, sold three houses, moved 600 miles away from my home for plenty of years, made a new home in a house that's over 150 years old, survived its' remodel, made new wonderful friends, miss old wonderful friends, grown closer to my son, grown closer to my Michigan grandchildren, miss my Louisville grandchildren, and the list continues goes on.
Did I make a mistake? Have I made the right decisions? If HC Baker is watching, what does he think? And if he is able to affect my life, why isn't he making it easier? And then I think maybe my life is supposed to be this way. I can only accept that it is.
I continue to be blessed by the thoughts and prayers of so many. I'm looking forward to visits this summer and fall from friends and family. (So far, no one has braved the winter for a visit!)
This day will be filled with memories, but I'm just not sure which ones. HC Baker can still be found on the bookshelf in the den and I've already had a conversation with him this morning. I still feel sad and angry sometimes but I also still know he's so happy to be where he is. And as beautiful as today is, he's probably already caught plenty of fish! (I wonder if there's a limit?)
Two years...hardly seems possible.
Saturday, June 2, 2012
Medicare and other great stuff!!!!!!!
Well, I'm now 65 years old! And once again I must say this growing old stuff is not for sissies! I have spent the past 3 weeks trying to figure out the medicare thing. OK, Part A is free (right!!!), Part B cost $100 and is automatically deducted from your social security, Part C is the supplement you must buy yourself and it costs a bunch. So now they deduct taxes and medical from my social security and I'm nearly at the point that I owe the feds every month. I know none of you want to hear this but you work all your life and then you get a piddlin' amount of money every month from the govt that is supposed to supplement your retirement income. Actually the amount left to "supplement" barely covers groceries. I told someone the other day that I have stopped reading and watching any national news because it scares the livin' daylights out of me. I got a call the other day from medicare welcoming me to the program and wanting to know if I had any questions. I told the woman I did and asked her my first question - how much will be deducted from my monthly social security check for this insurance? Her answer - she didn't have that information. Now between you and me, why would you call and ask to answer any questions if you didn't have the information to provide the answers? I, very politely I might add, asked her what kind of information she had. She replied she didn't like my tone of voice and I replied (not politely) "Well hang on Prissy because my tone of voice is getting ready to sound a lot worse than you ever thought! And she hung up on me. I immediately called back the number she had called me on only to hear a recorded message telling me the "call could not be completed. Please check the number and try again." I did and received the same recorded message. Now I'm angry. Don't my tax dollars pay the salary of Miss I don't like your tone of voice? Well, I finally was able to talk to someone who did answer my questions and now I feel much more well-informed...don't I?
The exterior painting is a work in progress. It's been raining a lot and cold so they paint one day and then can't for several. Hopefully, it will be done next week. It does look fabulous and I'm excited to get it done.
With all the rain, the basement has sprung a leak. Water is coming in from somewhere so today I had a gutter person come for a view. Up here they don't do gutters because in the winter the snow and ice freeze and rip the gutters away from the house. However, today's gutter man said he could put gutters in 2 areas of the roof edge and redirect the rain water to stop the basement leak. Of course that comes at a price!!!!! So anyway, they will be here within the next two weeks to add those gutters.
The next exciting thing that happened was the upstairs tub drain. The little thing that lifts the drain plug up and down ceased to work. So I went to my trusty, dusty Lowe's. I love those people. I think most everyone in the store knows me. I bought two things and came home to fix the problem. I read the directions (I now know what a cotter pin is!!!), removed the old drain open/closer thing, measured the length and replaced the stopper thing. Hooray!!!!!! The water still wouldn't drain. So apparently what I have is a plugged drain!!!!!! Back to the store I went in search of drain opener stuff. Got some, used it, no help. So now I need a plumber! At a price of course.
This was the last week of school for Garrett and Gracie. They finished yesterday and Emily had today to complete work and submit grades. Yesterday I went to Gracie's school for her awards ceremony. She won every award they gave! The people sitting around me started to say before the principal announced the name...it will probably be that little Lindgren girl! I was so very proud of her. At the same time it was a very sentimental experience for me. I have been to each elementary school my grandchildren attended and this appears to be the last (at least until TR Baker just might decide to marry again and add to my grandchildren numbers!!!). I found myself seeing a child that reminded me of each of my grandchildren, and it was fun to watch them. Garrett also had an awards ceremony and Emily was able to attend that one. He won quite a few awards too. One of them was the Algebra award and I know that made his mother quite happy! Next year all three of them will go to the same campus for school. Take a deep breath!
Today was my 65th birthday and never did I think I would be spending it without HC Baker. I know I had a 64th birthday without him, but today was just different. In another 10 days he will be dead 2 years, and I'm not sure what I'm thinking about that either. More about that on another day. Today I spent all day with Gracie. Garrett was working at the candy store with Brett and Emily was at school. Gracie and I started with manicures, followed by lunch with TR Baker, then a bit of shopping, then back home where Gracie tried on every pair of my shoes looking for the perfect heels for tonight's birthday dinner! Her mother was thrilled when she showed up at home wobbling in high heels. I've always told my grandchildren what happens with Jo stays with Jo. Once they're home, I loose all authority!
I am blessed by each of you. I received so many birthday greetings from you today and loved each one. My life is full of wonderful people who help me get through every day. Some days I just need a little more help than others! After two years of being without HC Baker, I'm supposed to be close to my new normal. I need someone to define that for me. Life sure is interesting, isn't it?
My birthday is over for 2012. Best wishes to you and goodnight!
The exterior painting is a work in progress. It's been raining a lot and cold so they paint one day and then can't for several. Hopefully, it will be done next week. It does look fabulous and I'm excited to get it done.
With all the rain, the basement has sprung a leak. Water is coming in from somewhere so today I had a gutter person come for a view. Up here they don't do gutters because in the winter the snow and ice freeze and rip the gutters away from the house. However, today's gutter man said he could put gutters in 2 areas of the roof edge and redirect the rain water to stop the basement leak. Of course that comes at a price!!!!! So anyway, they will be here within the next two weeks to add those gutters.
The next exciting thing that happened was the upstairs tub drain. The little thing that lifts the drain plug up and down ceased to work. So I went to my trusty, dusty Lowe's. I love those people. I think most everyone in the store knows me. I bought two things and came home to fix the problem. I read the directions (I now know what a cotter pin is!!!), removed the old drain open/closer thing, measured the length and replaced the stopper thing. Hooray!!!!!! The water still wouldn't drain. So apparently what I have is a plugged drain!!!!!! Back to the store I went in search of drain opener stuff. Got some, used it, no help. So now I need a plumber! At a price of course.
This was the last week of school for Garrett and Gracie. They finished yesterday and Emily had today to complete work and submit grades. Yesterday I went to Gracie's school for her awards ceremony. She won every award they gave! The people sitting around me started to say before the principal announced the name...it will probably be that little Lindgren girl! I was so very proud of her. At the same time it was a very sentimental experience for me. I have been to each elementary school my grandchildren attended and this appears to be the last (at least until TR Baker just might decide to marry again and add to my grandchildren numbers!!!). I found myself seeing a child that reminded me of each of my grandchildren, and it was fun to watch them. Garrett also had an awards ceremony and Emily was able to attend that one. He won quite a few awards too. One of them was the Algebra award and I know that made his mother quite happy! Next year all three of them will go to the same campus for school. Take a deep breath!
Today was my 65th birthday and never did I think I would be spending it without HC Baker. I know I had a 64th birthday without him, but today was just different. In another 10 days he will be dead 2 years, and I'm not sure what I'm thinking about that either. More about that on another day. Today I spent all day with Gracie. Garrett was working at the candy store with Brett and Emily was at school. Gracie and I started with manicures, followed by lunch with TR Baker, then a bit of shopping, then back home where Gracie tried on every pair of my shoes looking for the perfect heels for tonight's birthday dinner! Her mother was thrilled when she showed up at home wobbling in high heels. I've always told my grandchildren what happens with Jo stays with Jo. Once they're home, I loose all authority!
I am blessed by each of you. I received so many birthday greetings from you today and loved each one. My life is full of wonderful people who help me get through every day. Some days I just need a little more help than others! After two years of being without HC Baker, I'm supposed to be close to my new normal. I need someone to define that for me. Life sure is interesting, isn't it?
My birthday is over for 2012. Best wishes to you and goodnight!
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